How to give her the ultimate orgasm

Posted on May 9, 2012 by Abigail

When we say ultimate, we mean ultimate. We mean an orgasm that is unequalled in the annals of recorded sex. We mean the one perfect fuck that she will remember for as long as she lives.

Know what’s so odd about it? Giving your woman the ultimate orgasm may not even include a fuck as you know it, meaning your penis need not enter her vagina.

Themthar’s fighting words, we know. But allow us to tell you how it’s done. We then ask you to try it out, and if she doesn’t have the grandest orgasm of all, then we will eat your shorts. That’s how confident we are that this technique works.

You will need to do two things simultaneously. It’s not hard really.

You, sir, will merely stimulate her G-spot and her clitoris at the same time. Like we said, it does not have to mean penetrating her vagina with your penis, but you can also do this if you are technically proficient.

To get at her G-spot, you have to know where it is. So with your long middle finger, head up her clitoris until you are somewhere behind her belly button. Use a “come hither” motion. The G-spot is a slightly harder mass of flesh inside her. If she suddenly jumps, the chances are you’ve found your target.

You also know where her clitoris is, right? It looks a little bit like a penis and is found at the upper part of her vagina, just above the hole that you enter.

Tickling her clitoris can be done several ways. You can use your fingers, your tongue, or – best of all – a vibrator.

The stimulation of the G-spot coupled with the tickling of the clitoris is the perfect combination for most women. The orgasm she has can never be equalled. It also answers the age-old debate of whether there’s such a thing as a clitoral orgasm as opposed to a vaginal orgasm.

Want to take this technique further? Use a warming lube on your finger or penis or vibrator when seeking out her G-spot. The added warmth takes the unbelievable orgasm up a notch, believe it or not.

As you are doing this simul trick, make sure to keep on even as she seems to be having an orgasm. Remember that women’s orgasms last longer than the kind men have. Studies have shown that women have orgasms for 25 seconds, on the average, as opposed to men who can only shiver and shake for five seconds.

And, if you’re a naughty boy, take her further. Wait for her to beg you to stop, but don’t cease your loveplay until she raises the white flag a third time.

One thing that can happen with some women is a spurt of watery liquid to cap off her grand orgasm. But be aware that not all women are squirters.

With a regular orgasm, your woman is likely to shake all over as she scratches your back. With the ultimate orgasm, the bed will seem as if it were in the middle of an intensity 7 earthquake. She will scream her head off. She may have spasms from head to foot.

You know you’ve given her the ultimate orgasm by the look on her eye after she’s done. She will look at you as if you were the God of Love.

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How to keep your vibrators in top condition

Posted on May 4, 2012 by Abigail

Not that you would want to, but break open a vibrator and you will see what gives you those special vibes that can have your body shivering with pleasure after a few moments of use. It’s a tiny motor, little different from the motors that power many a child’s toy.

It’s a little more powerful than the motors used to make toy robots walk, or cars run. But the principle is the same. The mechanics that make vibrators vibrate, thrust or pulsate are pretty simple. Nothing like rocket science despite the extreme sensations they can cause. There are a few moving parts and these are the parts that you should take care of. And this is best done by leaving those parts alone.

If you’ve seen a generator, the idea is the same. Just as generators are powered by electricity to make the turbines move, so too are vibrators powered by electricity from batteries. But while generators require regular maintenance, even being totally dismantled every few years to keep them running perfectly, the small motors inside the vibrators do not need such extra care.

When not in use, keep the vibrators away from any heat source such as direct sunlight or open flames. Your room heater may be fine for you during the coldest time of the year, but they can damage your vibrators if you keep them too close to the heat.

Heat may not damage the exterior of some vibrators, but it will damage the motors that run all vibrators.

About the only time you can expose the sex toy to some form of heat is when you are using a waterproof vibrator in the bath or shower. Since you won’t be immersing yourself in boiling water, whatever temperature your body can take, your vibrator can take, too. Besides, masturbating in the shower or bath tub with a vibrator is one of life’s great pleasures, so the makers of those wonder toys make sure that you can use them there.

As with other appliances that use batteries, even the tiny ones, it is best to remove them when the toy will not be used. This is important if you have more than one vibrator. You will probably have a favourite one, which means the others may not be used for extended periods. Don’t forget that even the best batteries can leak. They are made of metal, which corrodes and rusts.

Give them the same treatment as you would your watches which are battery powered. The bad news is that once a battery leaks, it’s almost certain to destroy the motor. The good news is that you can still use the non-vibrating vibrator as a dildo.

If you do have a favourite vibrator whose motor is malfunctioning, some adept technician you know might be able to salvage it. But if it has served you well for years, it’s best to send it to vibrator heaven, peacefully retired but still useful as a dildo in case of emergency. Besides, that nice model would have been upgraded every few years, just like your car.

Under normal use, the vibrator that you prefer should last for many years. And by the time they do break down due to regular wear and tear, it would be more economical to buy a new one. And just like a new car, a brand new vibrator would have that new toy smell. It’s always exciting to have a new toy to unwrap and use for the first time, isn’t it?

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Preventing performance anxiety

Posted on May 2, 2012 by Abigail

It happens to the best of us. When a partner shows by his or her words or actions that great sex is expected this night, performance anxiety may set in.

For the man, he may suddenly find that he cannot sustain his erection. For the woman, she may end up getting dry humped because she did not get sufficiently aroused. The sex then becomes uncomfortable, even painful.

Performance anxiety usually happens when sex is forced, not instantaneous as it should be. In not simply allowing sex to happen and in forcing the issue, sexual arousal is severely undermined.

One of the times that this can happen is when couples schedule their fucking. This can be unavoidable because they both have busy and conflicting schedules. Since they both like sex – who doesn’t? – they are left with no option but to set fixed days of the week when they can fuck. In some cases, it is not merely the days that are set in stone, even the time has to be precise.

A couple who are not living together, and who may in fact be be miles apart, might agree to have sex only on Saturday afternoons, for example. Imagine how such a rigid schedule can affect one’s performance.

Being sick or injured is not allowed. Being pressured by work or personal problems is not an acceptable reason. Being in the middle of an important project is not to be considered.

The scheduled sex therefore becomes an obligation. Sure, the fucking can usually be good. But if any one of the possible hurdles comes in, then performance anxiety can creep in.

The man or woman may not even know it’s about to happen. He/she will be naked in bed with the partner, and expectations will still be high when it happens. Temporary as it may be, for the woman it is a case of being frigid. No matter what he does, she will not get aroused. He can use sex toys on her, perform cunnilingus for extended periods, and still nothing will happen.

A caring partner will sense that something is wrong and not force the issue. A jerk of a partner will fuck her anyway. He may shoot his load, but he will know after the fact that he has just acted like a selfish bastard.

It’s even worse for the man because nothing the woman can do will get his cock to stand erect. She may give him the best blow job that she is capable of, and still get no results. In this case, the woman will not be a selfish bitch, but she can have self doubts about her sexual attractiveness. She may think, “If he can’t get it up for me, then something must be wrong with me.”

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Making Your Woman Squirt by Using the Rabbit

Posted on April 27, 2012 by Abigail

The most experienced men in bed know that having a squirter in bed is not a common occurrence. If a woman not faking orgasm even just once is already hard to find, then imagine finding a woman who ejaculates almost the same way as men do. In fact, there are people who still consider squirting as taboo, mainly because it resembles pee shooting out from the vagina. There are women who have the ability to squirt would rather not do it in front of their partners because they are too embarrassed by it.

The ignorant should be reminded that a woman’s ejaculate is not actually urine. The thin and watery liquid does resemble pee, but it is not actually pee. Women who squirt may feel as if they are about to pee before orgasm, and releasing their squirt may actually feel like urinating. Still, it is scientifically proven that liquid produced from squirting is not really urine. So you girls can rest easy.

If you are a man who happens to have a partner who easily and freely squirts in bed, then you are lucky. Not all men have partners who can do that. If your woman cannot squirt easily, you can make some effort for her to try ejaculating on her own. How can you do this? By giving her better oral sex, or better yet use sex toys on her to maximize her pleasure to the hilt. Maybe your woman can only squirt when her orgasm is super intense and mind-blowing. Toys such as the Jack Rabbit are equipped to give women the most amazing orgasms ever.

See, the Jack Rabbit has three ways to make the women climax. The pearls inside the rotating shaft teases the inside the vagina like no other. The size and shape of the shaft alone is enough to please her. As if that’s not enough, the Rabbit attached to the shaft plays with the clit non-stop, as long as the batteries will allow it. You can use all three functions at the same time to make her achieve heavenly orgasms, or you can use combinations of the three to get the rhythm and feel that she wants. There are women who are too sensitive with the pearls inside the shaft, or the rabbit that plays with the clit.

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Sex during your period

Posted on April 25, 2012 by Abigail

On that time of the month when a woman is having her period but still wants to have sex with her man, one option is to try interfemoral intercourse.

This is not some acrobatic position, but is done when he thrusts his penis between the thighs of his partner. He is deliciously close to her vagina, but will not enter her. In effect, her thighs take the place of her vagina.

When taking the interfemoral route, it’s best to lubricate the thighs because they don’t have the natural lubrication of the vagina. Pleasure can quickly turn to pain for the man because of the friction between his dry cock and her dry thighs if there is no lubrication used.

On the plus side, the woman can control how tight or how loose she wants her thighs to be on her man’s cock. For him, it’s an added sensation which he will enjoy if she does it well.

This alternative to regular fucking is done if either the man or the woman has major qualms about sex during menstruation. Since the woman does not get penetrated during interfemoral intercourse, she may not get the satisfaction she seeks. The man should therefore consider it a favour if his woman agrees.

Incidentally, there is nothing wrong with fucking when a woman is having her period, especially if it’s not done during her heaviest day.

Of course, another option is to use a condom, but if it’s the woman who does not want regular sex during this time of month, then that’s her choice to make.

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Restoring the Tightness of Your Vagina

Posted on April 20, 2012 by Abigail

When you were in your teens and early 20s, your vagina is gifted with great tightness and elasticity. You can take merciless pounding everyday and still have the tightness of your vagina intact. But it is a different story if you just had a baby or you are already past the glory of your youth. Age and childbirth can really affect the elasticity of the vagina and you can tell the difference whenever you have sex. Suddenly, everything seems…well, loose. Your pussy’s grip on your man’s penis is not how it used to be. It can make sex less pleasurable. If this is a major concern for you, you can opt to have your vagina tightened. There are ways to give rejuvenation to your vagina. Some of them are:

Exercising your pussy muscles like crazy

Now that your vagina feels loose, it is the perfect time to pick up your slack and give your pussy muscles some regular exercise. Kegel exercises can be done by tightening and releasing your pussy muscles. If you don’t know how to do it, practice by holding the stream of your pee. Simple, right? Now do this every chance you get to give your vagina a much-needed workout. To make the exercise more effective, try doing it with the help of Ben-wa balls or vaginal weights.

Using vaginal tightening creams

You are not alone with this concern, which is why there are several types of tightening creams on the market intended to restore the elasticity of your pussy muscles. It’s like an anti-wrinkle cream for your vaginal muscles. The creams hydrates and plumps the inner walls of your pussy, which makes them more sensitive for sex. Before spending money on those creams, make sure to do your research first and get to know the ingredients. You don’t want unsafe ingredients in your vagina, right?

Go through vaginoplasty

Believe it or not, there is a surgery that can restore the original tightness of your vagina. This procedure is mostly popular overseas, where culture requires women to be virgins for their husbands. Although it can work for some women, doctors do not really recommend having this procedure given the risks. And would you really put that much of a deal with your pussy muscle? There are other ways to make the vagina more elastic without having to undergo a drastic step such as surgery.

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The Fetish Fantasy Series Bondage Belt Restraint System

Posted on April 18, 2012 by Abigail

Hi. My name is Cyndy and I like sex. I especially like fetish sex. When my boyfriend JJ fucks me when I’m all tied down, I have orgasms that are simply incredible. In fact, it’s the only time that I squirt.

I can’t explain why this is so. I do remember that when I was a kid, I used to play cops and robbers with my neighbour, a boy who was a year older than me. I found out that I liked playing the robber because when my playmate caught me, he would tie me up.

I was pretty young then, but I got the biggest thrill when he tied me up “for questioning.” It was all so innocent then. Nothing out of the ordinary happened.

My mom’s brother was a cop. He was in vice and I’d listen to him tell my dad about some of his, shall we say, exploits? I wasn’t supposed to listen, but you know how kids are. I had to listen to my uncle’s tales about catching some well known figures (politicians, businessmen, even a minister!) whom he had busted while in the act. He gave a Latin sounding term for it, in flagrante delicto, or something like that.

The story that gave me the biggest kick was of a politician who had hired a call girl to tie him up. He liked molten wax to be poured all over his body.

Surprisingly, I didn’t get turned off. I must have been in my early teens during those eavesdropping sessions. I toyed with the idea of becoming a cop myself, but found that I don’t really like guns, or even the idea of carrying one. So I became a nurse instead.

At the ER, there were a few instances when patients were brought in who had gone a little overboard with fetish sex. One time, a man was brought in who had shoved an anal dildo too deep inside his anus. One of the doctors had to take it out with great care.

My boyfriend of two years likes to hear such stories, and we decided that we should go all out with fetish sex (which we’re both into). So I bought the FF Series Bondage Belt Restraint System.

I have a pretty big bed and we do enjoy it when he ties me up and does anything and everything his heart desires. I particularly like the semi-rough treatment he makes me go through, but my favourite treat is when he ties me up, then uses my vibrator on me. Once the toy is inside me, he licks my clitoris.

He decides when to stop and I have to beg him sometimes. He actually laps up the juice that I squirt all over his face.

Although we have taken turns, I still prefer it when I’m the one who gets my arms and legs tied down and my eyes blindfolded. When he plays bad cop while I’m bound like that, the sex that follows is simply incredible.

Cyndy, 25, of Scottsdale

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Cheap realistic dildos for all

Posted on April 13, 2012 by Abigail

The greatest society of all is the egalitarian society, one that adheres to the belief that all men and women are created equal. This equality must be practiced in every arena, be it political, economic, social or sexual.

Women have fought long and hard to achieve the equality with men that is now theirs by birthright in most places. It is no longer a cliché but an established fact; what’s true for the goose is true for the gander.

There is no reason why every adult woman in the planet should not own at least one sex toy. As women have known for centuries, there’s nothing like that most basic of all sex toys, the dildo.

The growing acceptance of sex toys in recent years has resulted in manufacturers attaining the economies of scale. They are able to offer cheap realistic dildos that are affordable for all.

And while they may be low in price, they are not cheap in quality. Manufacturers know that other dildo makers will cut their profit margins to the bone in order to have a greater market share. The ultimate winner is the consumer, the women who deserve to own the best possible sex toy at the best possible price.

Science and technology have also played a part in making the most common sex toy available to anyone who wants one. The use of new and synthetic materials have likewise slashed the production cost of dildos. Take a good look at what’s available now and get a very pleasant surprise. Cheap realistic dildos are yours for the asking.

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She now feels half her age

Posted on April 11, 2012 by Abigail

For 44-year-old Myra, sex with her husband had come to feel embarrassing. After three kids and a very active sex life with her husband of 21 years, her vagina had lost all its tightness.

“I felt so loose that I wondered how much pleasure my husband was getting from fucking me,” she says. “I mean a cock the size of a salami would have fit inside my pussy. It was that bad.”

Although her husband never made a big deal out of her loose vagina, Myra wanted something to be done. She consulted with her doctor who informed her that there was a medical procedure that would tighten her vaginal walls, but it would not be covered by her health plan. The cost of the operation was too prohibitive for Myra and her husband, so she scrapped the plan. Not that her hubby would have agreed to the procedure. He was adamantly against it.

Luckily for the housewife, one of her friends told her of a product that she herself used. That friend was slightly older than Myra and had four kids from two husbands. She, too, had an active sex life.

That friend recommended that Myra try out a tightening gel. Not only was it cheap, it was also very effective. Her friend swore that the gel she recommended would tighten Myra’s vagina, even for a short while.

“At least, when you and your husband fuck, you will be tight,” the friend said.
Myra shopped around and picked one product that she thought was the most promising. It had a nice strawberry scent and had been in the market for several years.

She ordered the tightening gel, waited a few days, and received it in time for the weekend. Since Myra and her husband’s three kids were all grown up now, the couple usually spent weekends in bed. Sex was the part that they looked forward to.

The first time she used it, Myra felt like she was in her 20’s again. Her pussy had tightened just enough, and her husband immediately noticed her regained tightness. Although he could not quite put his finger on it, he knew that there was something different about this particular weekend’s sex session.

“I told him about the tightening gel after we had fucked,” recalls Myra. “He was pretty pleased with the result.”

Since then, Myra has been a regular user of the gel. “It’s not just for his happiness that I use it,” she says, “It’s also for me.”

Having a tight pussy when she has sex with her husband makes her feel like a woman half her age, she says.

“And to think that I was actually considering having an operation to tighten my pussy. That would have set me back a few thousand dollars,” Myra says.

“With the tightening lube, I only spend a few dollars. One tube is good for two weeks, so for one month I spend something like twenty bucks. That’s money well spent!”

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A tip for attaining the ultimate orgasm

Posted on March 21, 2012 by Abigail

Gentlemen, if you are sexually active and in perpetual search of the perfect fuck, here’s one handy tip to consider. Those who have tried it swear that it works. And you know what they say, the only way to find out is to do it yourself. Or rather not do it yourself.

A study published in the World Journal of Urology recommends that men who seek the ultimate orgasm should abstain from any kind of sexual activity for three whole weeks. That’s 21 days. Abstinence should be total, which means it’s not only fucking that must be totally avoided. No sex means no masturbation either.

The Journal says that three weeks is the time it takes for a man’s testosterone levels to reach peak level, thereby providing maximum boost to their libido.

This is a bit like skipping a few meals until one gets not only hungry, but famished. Whatever food is given to the one who took a fast will taste like the best meal he’s ever had.

The comparison ends there, however. Go without food for three weeks and you will find yourself dead.

Sex, on the other hand, is a different ball game. Any sexually active person can abstain from sex for the longest time and survive. He won’t be living life to the fullest, but he will still be alive.

Think three weeks and it seems possible, but 21 days seems like forever. Still, there are countless men who do not have wives or girlfriends. They don’t even have sex toys. They can last for weeks and months without sex. They may not be the happiest men in the planet, but they manage to survive.

There are also men like monks and priests who have no sex at all. Most of them do not necessarily lose their manhood. It must be a spiritual thing.

There are also men who are forced to forego sex for extended periods, like Navy men in submarines. With the closed quarters that they live in, even masturbation is not always possible. No one can say that they aren’t men’s men. If you have any doubts, try and pick a fight with a Navy Seal or something. The broken bones you will suffer is enough proof that men who don’t have sex for long periods remain as masculine as ever.

In the meantime, they macho men can stay sane by brushing up on their reading.

The one thing that can happen during the period of no sex is to have a nocturnal emission, also known as a wet dream. The Journal doesn’t tackle this possibility.

But if a man is able to resist the temptation of having sex of any kind, he will be amply rewarded. He will be like a car that’s just been overhauled. His sexual engines will be raring to go.

At the end of the three week period of total abstinence, get ready to have the ultimate orgasm. It may be so fantastic that you will decide to do it again.